If you have ever gone through a break-up then you know how upsetting it can be to your entire life.
I am no stranger to difficult breakups with absolutely zero closure involved.
I don’t know if I have ever had a relationship dissolution that involved adults, respectful conversations that enabled everyone to move on with clarity. Instead, I tend to be involved in relationships that abruptly end without much explanation. After that, I can never stop idealizing my ex-partner and ruminating over everything that I did wrong. It’s all the more difficult when you see things that remind you of your ex everywhere you go. Let me tell you, it’s even worse when you still work at the same heating and cooling repair shop as your ex boyfriend. This is what I have been dealing with for the past 6 months now. I knew it was a bad idea when the beautiful new heating and cooling technician asked me out on a date about a year ago. I realized that I shouldn’t get involved with our professional HVAC technicians even if they were extremely attractive and knowledgeable in all areas of advanced indoor air temperature control systems. I was very impressed with his handy skills and ability to repair any broken air conditioner or forced air furnace. But I knew from the get-go that we should keep our professional and romantic lives separate from the heating and cooling company. Now, we’ve been broken up for several months and I have to see my ex HVAC technician every single day. It has made the break up all the more difficult and I know everyone blames me for the breakup for being hot and cold.