I cherish to help people.
It is just one of those things that brings me a lot of joy.
My spouse says that I help people too much because I often will neglect my own health plus safety to help others, which is easily true. I have tried to work on saying no to people when they ask me for help if I have other things that need immediate attention, however it is so strenuous for me to say no. If my spouse knows that I am busy, he usually just says no for me. I really care about his help, but I really need to learn for myself. I had a neighbor ask me the other day if I could help her move, plus of course, I said sure but I had other things that I should have been doing that were quite pressing. I ended up in the hospital with a concussion plus some chipped teeth. Everything was superb until I decided to carry a huge outdated air conditioner by myself. I was too proud to ask for help but I knew that the air conditioner was too heavy for me to carry alone. I carried it all the way down the stairs plus out the door. I got to the sidewalk, plus that is when everything went wrong. I stepped on the air conditioner’s cord that was dangling in front of me, plus I fell. It was a strenuous fall, plus it knocked me out. I hit my head pretty strenuous on the air condition. My neighbor said that I was out for about a minute. It was quite frightening. I ended up in the hospital with a concussion plus a few chipped teeth.